Why We Should Not Control the Future?

Saturday, March 14, 2020
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Every people lived, living and will live in 3 different moments:
- past
- present
- future

Whatever we did, we can not erase it. The past may good or bad, and it could help our today and future live.

We are living right now should focus on the most relevant to us such as education, working, health and friendship.

We wish we could control our current living, unfortunately, we are not in completely charge of daily life. We face with fail and regret in many times.

How about with future? Why We Should Not Control the Future? The futures have some characteristics that are:

- unknown
- uncertain
- unsure outcomes
- unforeseen events

To control the future could results in disappoint, misery, fearful, no hope and worry. Thus, some experts suggest to enjoy of our life right now. We just able to plan our future with hope of good outcomes.

Are you happy with your current life?
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39 comments:

  1. dellgirlMarch 14, 2020 at 8:12 PM

    This is a really thought provoking post. Thanks for sharing this interesting information. It’s good to remember this and think seriously about it.

    Wishing you all the BEST, my friend!

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 19, 2020 at 3:30 PM

      Take care...

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    2. Tanza ErlambangApril 5, 2022 at 3:54 AM

      Why We Should Not Control the Future?

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  2. FashionRadi March 15, 2020 at 12:57 AM

    You're so right... we can't control the future. We've got to just enjoy the now.

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 19, 2020 at 5:25 PM

      Thank you to visit:
      Why We Should Not Control the Future?

      Every people lived, living and will live in 3 different moments:
      - past
      - present
      - future

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    2. Tanza ErlambangApril 5, 2022 at 3:55 AM

      Why We Should Not Control the Future?

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  3. camdanduslerMarch 15, 2020 at 1:16 AM

    We can't control the future but we can beautify tomorrows with our hope and belief😊

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 19, 2020 at 8:45 PM

      Thank you to visit:
      Why We Should Not Control the Future?

      Whatever we did, we can not erase it. The past may good or bad, and it could help our today and future live.

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  4. Ewa_SMarch 15, 2020 at 6:45 AM

    I am currently not happy with my life
    Regards
    Lili

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 20, 2020 at 9:06 AM

      Thank you to visit:
      Why We Should Not Control the Future?

      We are living right now should focus on the most relevant to us such as education, working, health and friendship.

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  5. stylefrontierMarch 15, 2020 at 8:04 AM

    trying to live in the moment and not worrying too much now (:

    xoxo
    style frontier

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 21, 2020 at 8:45 AM

      Thank you to visit:
      Why We Should Not Control the Future?

      We wish we could control our current living, unfortunately, we are not in completely charge of daily life. We face with fail and regret in many times.

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  6. VictoriaMarch 15, 2020 at 8:11 AM

    Wise post! Thank you very much )))

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 21, 2020 at 8:51 AM

      Thank you to visit:
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      How about with future? Why We Should Not Control the Future? The futures have some characteristics that are:

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  7. AgataMarch 15, 2020 at 8:24 AM

    We cant control the future even if we think that we can. Good post

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 21, 2020 at 10:18 AM

      Thank you to visit:
      Why We Should Not Control the Future?

      - unknown
      - uncertain
      - unsure outcomes
      - unforeseen events

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  8. Nanny's Pansy PatchMarch 15, 2020 at 9:56 AM

    Great post! The information is right on. My Dad always use to tell me don't worry about things you can't change. Especially with the situation now one should take it day by day and take time to smell the flowers! There are so many things we take for granted maybe this virus will help us appreciate things more when life gets back to normal - which it will.

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 21, 2020 at 1:54 PM

      hope, everything goes well...sure, we will back to normal

      Thank you to visit:
      Why We Should Not Control the Future?

      To control the future could results in disappoint, misery, fearful, no hope and worry. Thus, some experts suggest to enjoy of our life right now. We just able to plan our future with hope of good outcomes.

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  9. ChristineMarch 15, 2020 at 10:03 AM

    Great advice, live in the present whatever it is.

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 21, 2020 at 1:55 PM

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      Are you happy with your current life?

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  10. Sunika (Asuncion Artal)March 15, 2020 at 10:30 AM

    Good advice, a this momment we here in Spain have to rest at home for the covid19

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 21, 2020 at 3:08 PM

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  11. JeffMarch 15, 2020 at 5:54 PM

    I think that instead of controlling the future, we should be good stewards in the present and that would help us not to destroy the future.

    www.thepulpitandthepen.com

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 21, 2020 at 4:36 PM

      I agree with you....

      Thank you to visit:
      Why We Should Not Control the Future?

      Every people lived, living and will live in 3 different moments:
      - past
      - present
      - future

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  12. http://alestilos.blogspot.com/March 16, 2020 at 1:21 AM

    In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with what the author: it did not work out for good. Everything that happened to us in life is a lesson.
    Kisses 😘

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 22, 2020 at 2:34 PM

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      We are living right now should focus on the most relevant to us such as education, working, health and friendship.

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  13. Miss Val's CreationsMarch 16, 2020 at 4:28 AM

    Luckily my life is wonderful so it is easy to enjoy each day as they come. I used to constantly set goals for myself but as I grew older, that seemed less important.

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 22, 2020 at 2:47 PM

      glad to hear....

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      We wish we could control our current living, unfortunately, we are not in completely charge of daily life. We face with fail and regret in many times.

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  14. Joanna de Cosmética en AcciónMarch 16, 2020 at 12:48 PM

    Definitely we can't control the future. Now I'm living in the present and the situation is very difficult here in Spain.

    Best regards

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 22, 2020 at 8:29 PM

      Thank you to visit:
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      How about with future? Why We Should Not Control the Future? The futures have some characteristics that are:

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  15. KayaMarch 16, 2020 at 4:16 PM

    This is a very powerful post. I am learning more and more how to live in the present. I try not to think anymore about future, why bother. It's unpredictable and always surprising.

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 22, 2020 at 9:27 PM

      Thank you to visit:
      Why We Should Not Control the Future?

      - unknown
      - uncertain
      - unsure outcomes
      - unforeseen events

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  16. PilarMarch 17, 2020 at 5:27 AM

    Very insightful post.

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 23, 2020 at 7:45 AM

      Thank you to visit:
      Why We Should Not Control the Future?

      To control the future could results in disappoint, misery, fearful, no hope and worry. Thus, some experts suggest to enjoy of our life right now. We just able to plan our future with hope of good outcomes.

      Delete
  17. Erra MoodMarch 17, 2020 at 12:54 PM

    Nie do końca jestem zadowolona z obecnego życia.

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 23, 2020 at 10:25 AM

      Thank you to visit:
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      Are you happy with your current life?

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  18. PantherkaMarch 18, 2020 at 11:24 AM

    The past, the present and the future simply belong together.

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    1. Tanza ErlambangMarch 23, 2020 at 10:51 AM

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  19. Tanza ErlambangMarch 22, 2020 at 6:21 AM

    Thank you to visit:
    Why We Should Not Control the Future?

    Whatever we did, we can not erase it. The past may good or bad, and it could help our today and future live.

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